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The Geranium

06 Tuesday Jan 2026

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Poetry, Love, Poems, Poem, Life, Loss, Divorce, Happiness, Survival, Family, Geranium

I lit that house up like fire,

With stringed lights,

So that everyone who drove by

Had to look in.

It was a long time ago,

And before it was popular.

Year round lights, as if to say,

What happens here is a delightful mystery.

Once upon a time,

A man bought a house next door.

He was from Portland,

And thought the lights

Would make a good neighbor.

(He told me so later.)

Many years have passed,

And now I’m looking back,

Beneath the lights,

Wondering about the belief

That strung them, tree from tree,

That lit the fire in the chimenea,

And laughed into the late hours

With old neighbors, drawn to light,

Like a lone windowsill geranium

In a colorless city,

Eventually fallen from its perch,

Broken, shattered clay of pot,

Roots reaching for a smattering of air.

Finding the Sun

04 Sunday Jan 2026

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Afterlife, Belief, Courage, Divorce, Family, Fog, Freedom, Healing, Hope, Life, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Strength, Survival, Winter poem, Yearning

It is a dark night

And fog has settled

As if to say no

To every question

the solitude

of not being able to see

What will happen

Or if you’ll survive

What is about to come

This is the time to remember

Who you are

How you got here

Why you came all this way

Down the broken road

Even if you didn’t know

Life, like the fog

Never seeing too far

Sight is an illusion

One more step

Keep stepping

Eventually, you find sun

I Was Wrong

02 Friday Jan 2026

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Alone, Divorce, Loss, Love, Mothers, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Prayer, Survival, Women's Poems

I thought she was like me,

The practicer of goodbyes,

The mover on’er

The cutter of moldering ties.

I was wrong.

Had I known how long

She’d still be broken,

Would I have broken, too,

What remaining pieces in me

Were still able to be broken:

Lost shards, tossed about,

On the floor of my soul.

Some things are too hard to see,

They must come slowly,

Like our failure to answer,

Unanswered prayers,

Or to stop the cruel rendering

Of her chronically tender heart.

Closure

26 Saturday Jul 2025

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Closure, Divorce, Family, Loss, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Women's Poems

he runs away in shame

crimson faced coward

once lover, husband

father, now stranger

denying you closure

as we debate, contemplate

is there any such thing

as an answer

that heals wounds

makes it okay

I say no, and you

believe me and wait

for the pain to fade

Divorce: Finalized

25 Friday Jul 2025

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Divorce, Loss, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Yearning

A little boy who dreamed

his parents in one house,

‘Stay dad, stay’

words from his mouth

but together again

was an impossible ask,

his sins were too great

to be taken back.

Instead, he walked away,

the family was split,

and only God knows

the rest of it.

This Too Shall Pass

23 Wednesday Jul 2025

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Cry, Death, Divorce, Fear, Healing, Loss, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Survival, Tears

though the years soften

pain, like a creek-stone

years of flowing water

a collection of our tears

washing over them

buffering the edges

of our mutual suffering

when it ceases to cry

it will be gone to sand

sifted to the oceans

Dissolution

19 Saturday Jul 2025

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Divorce, Family, Loneliness, Loss, Love, Mothers, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Women's Poems

Let me be your soft place

to land, the keeper

of your sorrows,

your homeland.

Wear me like onyx,

giving you the strength

to survive this loss,

the feeling of being tossed

off and abandoned.

My dear, let him go,

but know, his leaving

cannot destroy you.

Resilience

15 Friday Sep 2023

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Divorce, Hope, Loss, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Strength, Survival

doesn’t mean

you have no pain

it doesn’t mean

you aren’t broken.

it means they hit you,

they went for the knockout–

punch, left you for dead,

but you were still breathing.

now we all wait

for the final round,

(we see you are bleeding),

rise again

walk towards your demon–

(god help the demon)

hey, they’re cheering for you

can you hear them cheering?

Is It Too Soon

16 Wednesday Aug 2023

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Courage, Divorce, Family, Loneliness, Loss, Love, Love Poems, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Strength, Survival, Women's Poems

To talk of the good things

That came of your leaving?

The way it opened up hearts,

And quieted our breathing?

Perhaps, you were too right

For our wrong little world.

Too bright and shiny,

Too unwrinkled.

She leaves the child behind

Is it too soon to say–

(You killed it) and that’s good, too?

Better to be a woman astray

Than a woman living in a fantasy.

Is it too soon to say

she will be stronger,

More beautiful, without you?

A Family of Bitches

04 Friday Aug 2023

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Bitches, Courage, Divorce, Loss, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Strength, Survival, Women, Women's Poems

but in a good way

the way of being stronger

than they understand

no need for a smile of fear

they smell it

poke the cage hoping

you’ll fall to pieces

or attack and hit the bars

they mistake how far

you can lunge

when you’re free

they mistake your love

for weakness

no worries

they’ll come begging back

it will bore you

I didn’t say

we are a family of bitches

she did

I’m here to claim it

tame women are a lie

they tell you exist

ask yourself why

you believed it

Assets

04 Friday Aug 2023

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assets, Division, Divorce, Horses, Poem, Poems, Poetry

You can have the dogs and cats,

But as for the horse,

Let’s cut her in half.

I’ll take my piece

And trade it for money.

A melancholy story, mostly true,

But he won’t halve her

By the time we’re through.

You Probably Wonder

03 Thursday Aug 2023

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abandoned, abandonment, Courage, Divorce, Healing, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Survival

If I feel your pain through her.

I don’t.

I feel her pain.

I tell her not to be the victim

In someone’s story about victims.

I tell her we’re survivors

Who make sweet lemonade

From what’s meant to be sour, tart–

We make our hurters think

We planned our hearts hurting–

That’s how happy you will be, my love.

We are a family of bitches.

I mean it in a good way—

Like good witches. Women

Who carry mystery in our bones:

We delight in knowing life is delightfully dark,

And ugly, and exquisite, and essential.

My love, in time you will find love,

But does it matter?

It will come too late to save you

From the present hurt, the sting.

The scarring. It’s fucking beautiful.

You didn’t ask for it.

But it will be beautiful anyway,

How you’ll wear it.

Maybe it will be your own poem,

Someday, when someone else needs a poem

About how to survive being thrown away.

You might learn the words that will heal them.

I Deserve Happiness

20 Tuesday Jun 2023

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Children, Colton, Daughter, Divorce, Family, Fathers, Leaving, Loneliness, Loss, Love, Love Poems, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Son

Loss after loss,

They seem seamless:

First you, then her, then him.

Or has time contracted,

Months, minutes;

Years, minutes.

How do I make them years again?

How do I release loss,

Accept it as part of the beauty

Of being alive and lost, too?

This last goodbye, ahhh–

Always out of my control.

Then, the wishing regrets.

They make me cry.

Generations, they never stop

Making their awful mistakes.

I deserve happiness, they say–

But do they ever find it?

It rained today, and it was cold, too.

June 20th. It has been eleven days,

Or eleven minutes, I forget.

Valentine

14 Tuesday Feb 2023

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Daughter, Divorce, Love, Love Poems, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Valentine’s Day

She is the child of a marriage lost,

Tossed into the ashes,

A heap of wanting to forget everything,

Except her, our baby girl, born

On a day they invented for love.

My Valentine,

From the man I forgot.

Life, and love, go on,

Like they said they do–

On that, they did not lie.

She is a grown woman now,

Married, has her own child.–

Aww, life, love, yearning, and hurt;

It is all gloriously entwined today.

Confession

01 Monday Aug 2022

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Addiction, Chaos, Confession, Death, Death Poems, Divorce, Dying, Eternity, Family, Forgiveness, Infinite, Loneliness, Loss, Love, mourning, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Soul, Souls, Survival

I tripped;

it fell,

flew,

from my arms;

then,

there was a funeral.

What Was Lost in the Trade

15 Sunday May 2022

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Children, Division, Divorce, Family, Hate, Healing, Life, Longing, Loss, Love, Love Poems, Marriage, Memory, Mothers, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Sacred, Self, Souls, Women's Poems, Yearning

The push, and pull, of memory,

When you left me I got sadness, despair,

When I left you, I got amnesia.

Be careful what you forget,

Memories, hostage to one another,

Shoved into the abyss, together they go,

What was beautiful, too,

The joy of holding his babies at my breasts,

The sound of love in first words;

Hope, like a childhood dream,

You’re embarrassed you believed.

And now, no plumbing the hole

With dirty hands, arms not long enough

To reach what was so easily given away;

(The hurt was not traded for living,

As I’d hoped,) no, I want them all back,

Though they bring you, with the sadness, too.

A Broken Thing

26 Wednesday Jan 2022

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Broken, Children, Division, Divorce, Family, Forgiveness, Life, Loss, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Snake River

I’d be lying, if I said I didn’t know,

Years of turmoil, like a river,

With a dangerous undertow.

Like swimmers, outside their boat,

Unable to swim, thrown against rocks.

We were young, and bound together

By our children. Then, the talk:

You don’t love me, he said,

And, rather than saying it wasn’t true,

I asked, what does love have to do

With being married? We have kids.

We were pulled over, under a bridge,

Which spans the mighty Snake River.

We were both wrong, but does it matter?

Self-fulling, breakup chatter–

Prelude to the email I would find–

Betrayal, is not a kind way to end.

Twenty years later, still not friends,

Yet, we are friendly in our pain.

The sting of loss, defines a sting,

And taints our world, a broken thing.

Blood In the Air

26 Tuesday Jan 2021

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Anger, Blood, Civil War, Death Poems, Divorce, Forgiveness, Hate, Loss, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Souls, Violence, War

If air could bleed,

the space between us

would, indeed, pour out.

Hate is a balm

for our hurt,

and the danger

we fear,

becomes anger.

My dear,

Are we beyond healing?

Or, is there yet

a latent spark

of forgiveness?

Remember when

we so easily embraced:

bone against bone,

a crushing lust,

our mutual love.

But now there’s dust,

and if the space between

could bleed,

it would drown us.

Our Once Shared Existence of Earth, and How the Virus Undid Us

02 Sunday Aug 2020

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Alone, Chaos, CoronaVirus, Covid19, Death, Divorce, Dying, Fear, Forgiveness, Hate, Healing, Hope, Horses, Life, Loneliness, Longing, Loss, Love, Poem, Poems, Poetry, politics, Self, Soul, Soul Poetry, Souls, Spokane, Women's Poems, Yearning

In this season, of triple digit days,

Anger gives way. It withers.

I said, I’m argued out about living,

What it means to be free, and human.

She is right, after all, I’m not an expert.

What do I know about a virus,

Which isn’t informed by the trees,

or clouds, or the way a horse sounds

when it calls to me in the dark?

I can only speak of the heart,

and even that, with authority of one,

my own heart, and how it breaks

To see the growing cries for help. Hate,

A distant thrum, beating, what it means

To be hurt, and hurt back harder.

Is any of this new? Or unique?

But we sought each other anyway,

To stake claim on our opinions;

The lost way, of friendship and loving,

Something which came easy to us, once,

When we valued living over living,

A life we could touch with our hands,

sending our fingers deep into the dark soil;

To be truly clean meant dirt under our nails,

For weeks, for months, dirt under our nails.

What They Said About Love

28 Tuesday Jan 2020

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Courage, Death, Divorce, Forgiveness, Happiness, Hope, Infinite, Life, Love, Love Poems, Marriage, Poem, Poems, Poetry, Soul, Souls, Spirit, Survival, Vows

New eyes, your eyes,

not their eyes, you see

yourself anew, beginning

to love again. How can that be

a bad thing? Love is not bad,

ever. Make it worth it,

she said, and she’s dead now.

If she’s right, you thought,

could it save us? A love—

worth it, worthy of—

holding past what we thought

it was, what they thought

it was, to what love is:

mostly forgiveness,

he said it, I’m sure,

in the vows. Forgiveness,

he went on & on

about grace, & letting go.

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